“Prioritizing yourself” means knowing what is TRULY most important in your life.
If you’re anything like me, I didn’t truly know what was TRULY most important until my late 30s.
Of course, I knew the “right” answer… God, family, friends, my purpose (or job.)
In my late 30s, after years of striving towards the above path, I came to a “hard stop” only to get super super honest with myself that that path was seriously not bringing me what I wanted or needed.
In fact it brought me a lot of what I didn’t want. Emptiness. Sadness. Strained relationships. Divorce. Heartbreak. Stress. Anxiety. Confusion. Poor health.
Just to be clear, I was born into a loving family and over the years I created A LOT of amazing things. Great success over years. Tons of friends. Trips. Love. Faith and spiritual life. Money. Promotions. Leadership opportunities. And more.
However, I was performing, I was striving, I was being a good girl who followed most of the rules and did it really really well, I worked incredibly hard and sacrificed a lot of myself to show up for others – all of the people listed above.
And the result. I was exhausted and drained to my core.
So, I changed the path. I had to.
With the help of several amazing professional helpers, I got clear with what was truly important and now I live life very differently and my results are MUCH better.
Actually, now, at 45, I still pinch myself years later from the time I had my “hard stop.”
Now, I prioritize myself in a whole new way and have a whole new very specific purpose. No longer am I working to satisfy, please, accommodate, do it the “right” way or check all the boxes.
Now, I am pursuing the highest version of myself. To restore my true nature that I was born with, my God given nature.
After years and years of life experiences and accumulating other people’s beliefs about me and about the world, my true nature had become very very distorted. So much so that I did not recognize myself.
There was growth and exploration and ultimately transformation that had to happen to get to where I am today. Sometimes it was hard, change usually is uncomfortable to some degree even when it’s awesome. And, I had lots of amazing teachers and mentors and still do. And, the work has been totally worth it.
Let me be real … every 24 hours of my life is not completely stress-free nor am I 100% in rest, but stress and anxiety are now momentary passings rather than my state of being and I am operating, finally, from a state of rest.
There is a scripture in Hebrews that talks about living in the restful hand of God and for the life of me for all these 40 years I did not understand how to do. I couldn’t even conceive it in a tangible way, it was always a far away idea, similar to “retirement.”
Now, I am living in the beautiful restful hand of God, no longer waiting for the promised land. What a feat that has been to get here. I’ve been through the “desert.”
(I talk about this presence as God because that is what I learned as a child, if you call it by another name, please know I see you and I honor you)
Come join me in the restful hand of God.
It’s truly beautiful.
Little did I know in all my years of Believing that I could experience “Heaven” on earth.
There’s more for you my loves, so much more, if you are willing to be your most courageous self and go on a journey to discover the more that God has for you.
For those of you that desire to go on this expedition, I am one of the ones chosen to guide you. To show you the New Way.
For those of you following me for awhile, you’ve known me as “Liberated Badass” and I still am, it’s tattooed on my arm lol. But now I enter into a new phase of my own journey as Shaman.
For those of you not familiar with the term, I wasn’t. It means one who loves to study and mentor others, one who seeks personal healing and then heals others and one who sees visions beyond what most can see.
This is me.
I am here for you. You know how to reach me.
Liberated Living 💖💫🔥
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