You hold the power.

You hold the power.

Your mind creates your circumstances.
Your mind hears what it chooses to hear.
You will either hear love or you will hear fear.

This is where the saying, “there’s always two sides to every story” comes from. Because literally, there are several ways to interpret/view/judge/see any given situation.

Why? Because we “see” through our past experiences and the decisions and/or beliefs that we generate from those experiences.

For example: If in your life, you’ve had several challenges around flying and travel.
And, you’ve concluded from those experiences: “flying is anxiety provoking.”
Then, when you hear me talking about how I’m going to visit Ireland and Paris and Greece, you will most likely start to feel anxiety because it involves flying and it’s shooting up a red flag to your nervous system.

Similarly….
If you are used to feeling judged or misunderstood as one of your core patterns that started in childhood, then you will feel judged or misunderstood a lot of the time in life including times when you are not being judged or misunderstood.

I would venture to say, most of the time you are not actually being judged or misunderstood even though you feel and perceive it happening often.

Why does it work this way? Because it’s the lens through which your mind “hears” and “sees” from a lifetime of conditioning.

When you feel judged or misunderstood, it’s your core pattern being triggered. The way you know if you’re being triggered vs someone actually judging you or misunderstanding you is when you have an emotional response that is disproportionate to the present situation.

The “trigger” is data to let you know you have an unresolved issue that needs attention. And, until you do the inner work to resolve your core pattern, you will continue to get triggered.
And, you will continue to “believe” that people are judging you or misunderstanding you.

They aren’t.
They are just speaking their truth.

Keep in mind, I don’t know them or their intentions so I can’t speak to them, I can only speak to you and what you are dealing with.

And, this post is to help you understand better how your mind works.
So, if you want to enjoy yourself more and feel more confident in who you are and what you are doing in life, and you want to feel less judged or misunderstood by others, resolve your core patterns.

This is the only path to making that happen in a liberating and sustainable way.

Once you understand your core patterns and how you create them, you know exactly how you create your current circumstances. You understand why your marriage/relationship isn’t the way you want it, you know why you don’t have the money you want, and you see why your body isn’t in the condition you desire. And, the list goes on for anything in your life that isn’t as you want it…

Ultimately, you understand why your mind hasn’t been creating the life you want.

Now, you have the POWER to start creating the life you DO WANT.
And, we go to work on creating it.

This work is the most powerful work I’ve done personally and professionally. It changes your circumstances faster than any other work I’ve done both in my own life and for the lives of the clients I work with.

Game Changer.
Life is working for you.
All things work together for your good.
Take every thought captive to bring it into alignment with truth.

When your understanding increases, these principles become a strategy for “overcoming” and manifesting in your life rather than just being catchphrases you say.

When you stop blaming anyone or anything else for not having what you want, you can create exactly what you want.
This is “solid food” growth.
And, this is where life gets to be easier and more fun.
And, you get to do more of what your heart longs to experience.